Frequently asked questions

Who is Wren for?

Adults seeking a genuine, lasting relationship — especially those starting a new chapter later in life. You must be 18 or older to join.

How does matching work?

You take a short compatibility assessment, and Wren ranks other members by how compatible you truly are — based on your values, temperament, and goals, not just photos.

Is Wren free?

Joining, taking the assessment, seeing your ranked matches and sending likes are free, always. Messaging is part of Premium, and it takes two — a message goes through when both people have it, so a free member does not send or receive. Premium also adds seeing who likes you, sending photos in chat, and up to 12 photos on your profile instead of 4. Anyone who joins by September 30, 2026 is a founding member and keeps all of it free for life.

How do you keep me safe?

Nobody can message you until Wren has confirmed who they are. Almost always that is a government photo-ID check through Stripe. Occasionally someone cannot complete it and a person at Wren confirms them instead — their badge reads “Approved by Wren” rather than “ID checked”, so you can always see which. You can report or block anyone, and we review reports personally. See our Safety page for details.

Is anyone near me?

Wren is launching city by city, starting with founding members. If we're not open in your area yet, join the founding members list and we'll invite you the moment we launch near you.

How do I cancel Premium?

You can cancel anytime; your Premium features continue until the end of your billing period.

How do I contact you?

Email us at support@findwren.com — a real person will reply.