What membership costs
It depends on one thing: when you join.
Everyone is confirmed. Nobody can send a message on Wren until we know who they are. Almost always that is a government photo-ID check through Stripe. Occasionally someone cannot complete one and a person at Wren confirms them instead — their badge reads “Approved by Wren” rather than “ID checked”, so you can always see which. There is no charge for it, and no way to skip it — founding member or not.
We never charge per message. Messaging is unlimited for everyone who has it.
Join from October 1, 2026
Two ways to use Wren
Free
$0, always
No card required, no trial that expires.
- Compatibility assessment
- Your ranked matches
- Send likes
- Post up to 4 photos on your profile
Messaging is part of Premium, and both people need it for a message to go through.
Premium
$19.99 / month
or $14.99 / month billed $89.94 every six months.
- Send and receive messages
- Everything in the Free plan
- See who likes you
- Post up to 12 photos on your profile
- Send photos in chat
Prices in US dollars. Cancel Premium yourself from your account at any time — within your first 14 days we refund your first payment in full, automatically. See our refund policy.